bipolar sudden breakups

However you spent 2 years learning how this will not last and how damaging it can be to the "well-meaning" partner. What is happening to your ex right now has nothing to do with you. There are a couple of already popular bipolar subs but having a specific sub just for relationships is important in order to facilitate a community of support. Even if the relationship was toxic and getting out was the right decision, there may be a sense of failure or self-blame. I broke it off because I could see the relationship wasn’t going anyway. Once you're more calm and removed yourself from the toxicity, then you can contemplate what you've learned from the experience. When you love someone, you trust them. That's a perfect excuse. " We have had minor arguments but … Sometimes people don't have the best intentions either, because they are impulsively reacting to the loss. But then I guess it became to much, because now she won't even speak to me. I dont know if I can risk having this effect on his mental state. You have survived one of the heartbreaking relationships that can exist. They give me drugs that supposedly help me to feel less. I relate to your post in the way that I am/was that exboyfriend. The are extremely self focused regardless of anything; near term personal gratification is a hallmark. I wasn't sure if he is always on meds or not. We are a community here not just a help page. Although she still robbed me off everything. I agree about waiting for more stability but I fear that maybe he IS actually stable right now and in reality I was the one causing problems. Getting dumped is really painful. This can make people behave quite strangely, like breaking into their exes property, destroying their belongings, or coming up to them uninvited in the street. You also might keep in mind that this guy could have a personality disorder. outofthefog.net. How you treat them is never ever a fair deal. God created us to be connected in relationships, to love and be loved in return. However he is not going to suddenly get better, so this pattern will continue. So once you drop off the good list for some personal slight you had no idea about, the bad list is where you end up. Quite simply, I'm devastated. However, half way through the semester I found out that he had to take a medical leave and returned home for the rest of the year. I keep thinking “how she could do this to me”. I broke off with my partner after no more than 2 years together so I could go to grad school. After the mania phase is gone, when the reality of manic diagnosis dawns upon them, a bipolar person begins to feel guilty for whatever inappropriate they have done during the manic phase. IT’s a long distance relationship and they don’t last long. You cannot fix her, you cannot make everything better, no one can. During this time we started to talk more on and off and I was thrilled to hear when he'd be making some progress. Circumstances will need to change and I have hope that a little space will help make that happen. And thanks for the practical advice. BREAKUPS AND ARIES Been dumped by an Aries? Be patient with finding a relationship. She was incapable of giving physical intimacy and caring about my feelings. Either way, the noticeable character difference is uncomfortable to deal with. Thank you so much for your input and for sharing your personal experiences. She forgets all about her love at first sight and cancels her date. (Again, I came here because I'm trying to better learn how to manage that/make that a reality). You should never feel as if you are dating two completely different people—especially one that is abusive. Until recently, it was thought that the onset occurred in a subject’s teens to early 20s, and those who experienced bipolar disorder symptoms later in life had simply been suffering in silence or had been misdiagnosed. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. and your exbf, i'm about to be 30 in a couple weeks. At least we won't make the same mistake twice. Stay strong and feel free to PM me if you need an occasional "You can do it!". They suffer depression and will push people away during that time. Be patient good things happen to good people when they are involved with someone who can contribute positively to a relationship. i wasn't super sure about putting this up but in the interest of showing you all what a manic episode is like, i figured i'd just upload. It is about his own mind. He started getting really anxious/tense about everything again, making comments about how I was pressuring him by pursuing a relationship with him, and this confused me because he was the one that brought it up this summer. He is mentally unstable and has paranoia. Should I keep holding onto the hope of me becoming more understanding and constructive and that maybe he'll be in a different mental state later and reconsider/at least be willing to talk about it? Sometimes it's really hard to give advice on such things because everyone is different and the constructs of each couples relationship is different. Your feelings, pride, heart, finances, self-esteem, etc. Many people find careful money management to be vital in reducing stress and avoiding episode triggers. You do not need to suffer from it by association. Are people with bipolar disorder more likely to act viciously towards a person after a relationship breakup or after getting rejected? This can have an effect on bp people so much so that sometimes they don't trust their own perceptions. I try to not feel this way. It's so hard to not take their behaviour personally. I had undiagnosed depression or bipolar disorder at the time. I'm at my wits end and really do appreciate any of your stories/insights/perspectives. hugs. One other thing that is relevant to you is their inability to create connected relationships. Although I know it’s her bipolar making her do these things and it’s not personal. My boyfriend is wonderful, but sometimes I lash out at him over things that happened in the past. I am new here and seeking guidance. Yesterday I came home from work and find her and her new guy smoking tons of weed and drinking. It is their greatest hope that their honesty will give insight, shatter stigma, and offer hope. I've been in shock at how easy it is for my boyfriend to abandon me on a sort of whim only a few weeks after confessing how much he wants to work things out to last long term. Sure she is happy now, of course, she is happy now - she is in that bipolar high. He even brought up being excited about our future together past college. A lot of people don’t seem to have sympathy and feel uncomfortable saying something. It's been hard. Call your Mom, do something nice for just for the hell of it, distract yourself for the time being to give yourself a little bit of time to let painful emotions settle like a snowglobe that is done being shaken. They can't fix her, not with all the money, connections, fame, good looks, WHATEVER. Underlying bipolar characteristics and anger issues come to the forefront. Now it is you, but it is still not about anything you did or didn't do. It was back and forth, on & off for a while. I too ignored all the red flags out of desperation. But at this point, he's shut me down/cut me off and basically told me he's done forever. He is bipolar but takes meds and is in therapy. Support Forums > Bipolar Disorder New Topic Reply Previous Thread | Next Thread Dakato. DON't answer her calls,texts, emails, letters, or knocks at the door. Anyways, we reconnected for the first time this summer (in person) and immediately recognized that the amount we care for each other just is not going to go away. I try to pull back. It's still raw at the moment and will be for some time. The end of a relationship often ushers in dark feelings like abandonment, guilt, and rejection. Very insightful. 12. I am bipolar, and it is completely ruining my relationship with my boyfriend, whom I love very much. Bipolar boyfriend suddenly broke up with me. I was thrilled to be back with him and he told me he couldn't believe how he had treated me the summer before when he was dealing with his health issues. If I could feel less, maybe I would. He was anxious, things were off, and I knew something was up. However, relationship breakups can be especially difficult for people with bipolar disorder, not just because of the emotional instability that ensues, but also because of the change in routine, stress, and loss that can trigger either mania or depression. First, I hope it's okay I post here- I apologize for a) GIANT BLOCK OF TEXT b)a lengthy back story, but hopefully it will help explain my situation and c) that this is a "call for help" post. When your mood shifts to mania or hypomania (less extreme than mania), you may feel euphoric, full of energy or unusually irritable. Another reason sudden breakups are so shocking – especially if your boyfriend cheated and lied to you – is the trust that was broken. At age 29, I was diagnosed as bi-polar. It's hard growing up, it's hard figuring stuff out, it's hard finding the one to be with. I’ve felt extremely hurt by it all. If you cheat on me or flush your meds I'm done. When they come out of depression then they are semi normal but really the depression … Sometimes we really love someone but we can't be with them until circumstances change. I know that when we get in a fight I usually think about She’s behaving exactly as she was when we first dated. She was kind and caring. Breakups can be brutal—and can easily trigger bipolar symptoms. People with bipolar disorder often times do not see things clearly and others begin to distrust what they say and how they percieve things. I hope I don't seem to be impatient with you. Having bipolar disorder means living with challenges most other people don’t face, like needing to regularly manage bipolar triggers to make sure you don’t have dramatic mood changes. I just keep telling myself that she's crazy and that's all there is to it. Before it was burglars - but there were no burglars, it was not about any actual burglars. However, his decision to cut off all communication completely (for what he says will be a year) and refusal to acknowledge me or let me say anything in response makes this difficult to let him know. While in a relationship, they will say they are more connected to the other person than ever. It is usually manageable with a correct diagnosis and suitable treatment and support. When I realized that a person with bipolar disorder is unable to even feel the pain they cause until they reach some level of normality, it allowed me to sympathize with the mental illness. Can't offer any advice, can't say with any certainty that maybe he's the one for you, but you need more relationships under your belt. A person may be depressed for a long period of time and show low energy, anxiety, and emptiness. This sounds cheesy but I love him incredibly deeply and will stand by his side through just about anything that he faces with this. We fought about what was going on and what he wanted from me/us and he kept just talking about his mental state. Nonetheless, I feel hurt, betrayed, used, alone and sad. I know how hard it was to be around a parent with bipolar. She does drugs and fucks another guy 4 weeks after breakup while we’re still living together. In this way, the man is telling an ex (indirectly) that he values her less. I really think that you have to take care of yourself and put yourself first. When I'm out of this toxic situation I will be able to look back at it as more of a learning experience. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. When a Bipolar Heart Breaks . I value your perspective. Still, at one point when he started new meds things got much worse temporarily and I was receiving phone calls in the middle of the night asking me to convince him that there were not burglars in his house. Sorry, that may not be totally relevant to your situation but maybe this will provide a little insight from his point of view. At the start she was telling me everything I wanted hear. Manipulated into loving her and then cut off. Pity or curiosity do not lead to a positive relationship. went through a bad break up last year that was my decision. He Seems Like He’s Being A Huge Jerk To You . People with bipolar disorder are seven to eight times more likely to fall apart during stressful times. Maybe he'll figure it out, maybe he won't. Be a part of something that cares about who you are. She was vague about past relationships, vague about why she liked me, didn't like french kissing, wanted to sleep in seperate beds, never gave hugs, didn't want to label us, didn't say I love you until months in, had a promiscous past. When he suddenly broke up with me (not in the nicest way) during what seemed a serious bout of depression of his, things quickly started to worsen for him psychologically at an escalated rate. I want him to know that I am willing to try to learn about what's going on and remain a positive support for him through everything. With the quickest temper in the Zodiac, Aries is probably the easiest sign to break up with. I still struggle to believe how she could be so hurtful and how much she lied to me. Day and night merge into one. He mentioned concerns about his meds and such but didn't seem overly upset towards me. It's hard being bipolar, it's hard being the person that's with someone bipolar. We didn't get back together as he seemed to have no interest in me and I was dealing with a recent death in the family as well as a recent medical issue, and we both went to our respective colleges for the fall semester. You, however don't have it. I understand the risk I'm taking in saying that I want to wait around (even while there is space), but feel it's important because I know to my core that I want to support him through whatever he might endure and better learn to cope so that I'm an ally, not a potential trigger. Knowing how they are different can help you plan the right approach. Learn about the most common triggers for bipolar mood episodes. Being in a relationship where one or both partners have bipolar disorder is not easy. You're right. This just doesn't seem like a healthy way to end things and certainly is not the way I think he would normally "end" things if he were feeling alright, which is why I am trying to analyze the odd situation perhaps in relation to bipolar disorder. This is a horrible, devastating illness. If you love him so much, fuck him. Now my ex won't speak to me. How far does your understanding go? I panicked. But that's okay. How she was committed, really liked me, that she hadn’t been with too many guys, didn’t have problems with physical intimacy and didn’t mind that I wasn’t a traveller. Does anyone else have experiences (on either end) with these sorts of sudden, charged breakups that just don't seem to match up? It doesn’t help that she has turned her friends and family against me by making me look like the obsessive ex. I felt very hurt that she had gone from saying I love you to no remorse about making me homeless. I am also so sorry to hear about your situation and even as someone sort of in the opposite position, sympathize and identify with your pain. After a month he ended up in the hospital and was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Agreeing to be careful, we decided to proceed forward acknowledging how much we loved each other and hoping we'd be able to officially date again once we got back to school. Watch The Video: How Do Guys Deal With Breakups: What Every Woman Needs to Know. but honey , I'm bipolar .. You need to understand !" I find it hurtful that she had brought a date so soon after the breakup when I would be moving out in 2 weeks. I didn't even know human beings could be like that. But if the break up … Bipolar disorder is a chronic psychiatric mood disorder characterized by periods of depression alternating with manic episodes. This is a conscious choice on the part of the guy and is designed to act as an emotional shield. Bipolar Disorder. I'm bipolar. People with personality disorders (narcissistic, borderline, etc) have some very unique qualities that don't come and go with episodic events like with BPD. Posted 10/21/2016 7:43 AM (GMT -7) Hello all. It's hard being like this, dealing with emotions. I appreciate it. However you spent 2 years learning how this will not last and how damaging it can be to the "well-meaning" partner. My ex-boyfriend always said I couldn't handle my emotions, and maybe sometimes that's true. But (in particular borderlines) they keep people on lists, a good list and a bad list. Well, that's not unusual! I naturally poised myself as the next Prime Minister of Canada and my document was brilliant in my mind. Bipolar is hitting the junction at an altogether different velocity. This almost pushed me over the edge mentally to be honest; I felt like I was 'losing it' only because I wasn't prepared to lose him like this again. So you just have to decide, how much can you take. I have been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months. Just try to be supportive, but if he is not willing to help himself and seek treatment, you might want to reevaluate things. A week later she is online dating and brings a guy round to the house. We still spent a lot of time together and I could calm him down pretty well like usual, laughed, had great conversations, etc. If he comes off as being a massive jerk to you after breaking up – chances are it was really rough on him. If you’re dating an Aries, be prepared for a lot of cut and thrust and the occasional bout of head butting. He wired us to lean on each other, to trust … Time to let go and be thankful for the time that you had with him. Unfortunately, an understanding of the disorder is not something I'm born with (though I wish so badly it was). Incremental withdrawal of support: Yet another way guys deal with breakups is by slowly cutting off emotional support. They were very helpful for me. Thanks for taking the time to post. Press J to jump to the feed. We just click. Classic avoidant. I love and hate with an intensity beyond my comprehension. Bipolar people, don't need a lot of things, but occasional candle light dinner is necessary. You might not want to date him until he is more stable. I have to be educated. Unfiltered & authentic - a real-life glimpse of bipolar disorder. Bipolar disorder causes shifts in a person's mood and energy levels. A safe haven for bipolar related issues. It may help to limit your access to specific accounts and credit cards during manic or hypomanic episodes, as many people overspend during these periods. She is bipolar, that is what is the norm for them. I got frustrated and asked him why he was suddenly doing all of this (in retrospect I shouldn't have added this stress and I truly regret it). He wrote me these very touching emails basically begging to get back together. :(. Clearly your boyfriend loves you and I hope that reminder offers you some encouragement. It cannot be; because they have brains that are chemically skewed. She introduced me to her parents, grandparents and sister. Thanks for the link. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. I want to take care of myself and am recognizing my need to be independent in spite of this, but I'm hoping this does not mean that I will forever have to be apart from him. I've started attending a National Alliance for Mental Illness support group for loved ones of people who suffer from bipolar disorder to help me become more educated, but don't know where to go from here. No matter what is going on in their life , nothing excuses someone cheating on you. Here, the man will become less available to talk, discuss problems with, and provide comfort. It was the most painful experience of my life as I had fallen in love with her and it had been a serious relationship. TLDR – Caught up in the rollercoaster of a bipolar girl. We see things in much more sensitive ways, like a raw nerve, exposed and naked. I’ve been on drugs that do that even more, but it’s hard to go back to black and white once you’ve seen a rainbow. You need to take several steps back and examine why you felt the need to stay with someone who was so ill. were treated like crap. New Member. After just a couple months I knew I wasn't doing well in school and so I went back to Chicago where he was. I almost wish I hadn't told him my dog died or wouldn't have been stupid enough to question why he was acting a certain way because it pushed him over the edge. People with a diagnosis of bipolar disorder experience extreme shifts in mood that can result in manic or depressive episodes. They then had sex at night in the room next to mine. I am bipolar and thinking of separating from my wife of 17 years relationship. I am lucky that at least I broke it off. Bipolar disorder refers to the opposite ends of the emotional spectrum. We had been dating for two years before he was diagnosed and I should note that I know we both loved each other and really were looking at things long term. Be real, have fun with him, tell him to balls up. I appreciate your honesty and advice and definitely understand what you are saying. That fear is very difficult to face because my goal was to be a positive presence. Forgive me for my misconceptions, I really want to better learn how to be a more understanding, graceful, loving advocate when it comes to this (not just for my boyfriend). Bipolar disorder and depression are different from each other. There is often no middle ground. Let yourself feel the emotions Bipolar people might break up with their partners during mania or hypomania because of the symptoms(Bipolar disorder - Symptoms and causes) in such case they will come back to patch up for sure. I think you have to be prepared for the possibility that he really doesn't want to get back together. It doesn't matter what the new "man" has or the new men that will follow him. I'm a little bit older than you(?) Diagnosed bipolar 4 years ago. Or maybe I'm way off base and this has nothing to do with his disorder and "forever is forever", this time? )boyfriend suffers from bipolar disorder and was just recently diagnosed within the past year and a half. Just be yourself, being to good to him is giving him stress. It’s not easy feeling so intensely. The only thing you can offer is understanding. I’m trying to pretend it doesn’t bother me, but it makes me cry. I'm sorry to hear about your personal difficulties and hope that there might be some alleviation for you as well. Thank you so much. Unloving, cold, distant and very selfish. I just want to hear from others who have been through this experience. Cookies help us deliver our Services. My boyfriend sticking around through my emotions has meant everything to me, even though he doesn't know I am bipolar. Then depression brings the pantomime to a standstill. You need to be able to rely on and trust the man you love because we’re wired to be in relationship with one another. The human experience is rough, but as we learn and share what we've got, we enrich our lives and those that we encounter. She slacks at work, eventually calling sick. Join mental health advocates, Shaley Hoogendoorn and Julie Kraft, as they passionately share their bipolar journeys. Your point that it might be much easier for someone with bipolar disorder to tell others they want them out of their life really resonates with me. Decide if you are in it for the longhaul, decide if you can do it. I don't know how to react because I don't want to trigger anything worse for him in terms of his own mental health, but at the same time, I just don't know how to handle this I care for him unconditionally in terms of his struggles with bipolar and wish there was something I could do to make him understand I'm doing my best to learn how to act to best support him. This blog helped me forgive the nastiness I experienced in a bipolar relationship I think any advice given by strangers on the internet should be taken with a grain a salt, but if you're looking for direction, here's my input.Look for the people that really love you, feed off that energy, but don't be stingy in giving it back. Bipolar Disorder. An ultimatum should be coming out of your mouth or you can continue living this way. Most people think the main reason for that gnawing pain is because you lost “the love of your life." This sub is a place that people can come for advice or just to vent so that we do not affect our significant others with our emotions. The sudden loss of a job can be a trigger for bipolar depression, as can ongoing financial stress. We've now been together for a total of 22 years. My ex, she said she could do it. Decisions that are made suddenly are revoked suddenly. It cannot be; because they have brains that are chemically skewed. She also revealed her promiscuous past and said we would break up if I didn’t go travelling with her for a year. I think he will probably change his mind about wanting to date you, so in that sense, you can hold onto the rope. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts, This blog helped me forgive the nastiness I experienced in a bipolar relationship. When you’re in a loving relationship with someone who has bipolar disorder, it’s common to feel frustrated and unappreciated at times. Frantic I pushed him to explain to me what was going on (again, mistake) and he only reinforced that he was done with me and that this was "toxic". Does anyone else have experiences (on either end) with these sorts of sudden, charged breakups that just don't seem to match up? If people can't quit talking about her, move on from them too. After about a month at school, though, this changed. Bipolar needs lots of work and you really have to be trained in psychiatry to be able to handle any kind of relationship with them. There's no coming back from those. Be there for him. I’ve tried seeking social support, but because of social anxiety I don’t have many good quality friendships. I've started attending a National Alliance for Mental Illness support group for loved ones of people who suffer from bipolar disorder to help me become more educated, but don't know where to go from here. I realize later she was the love of my life, but I can't get that back now. Sounds like a rough deal, for sure. Sure she is happy now, of course, she is happy now - she is in that bipolar high. Please don't weep over how you are not being supportive enough of someone who is treating you badly. Don't and I mean DON't contact her. Lexi can't get out of bed or bare to even open the curtains, cynical death rites surge in her brain. To answer your question: In the weeks leading up to his decision to stop talking to me I know that he had stopped taking his medication on a regular basis/on a regimented schedule (just based on what he shared with me). The more of a jerk it seems like he’s being, the worse he’s feeling about the breakup. My fear is that in contacting him to say anything along these lines, based on his current state (though I still am not sure exactly what it is), he may react even more negatively. 5 months later and she turned into a completely different person. Thank God, that you have no need to deal with her ever again. He told me he couldn't believe he had "thrown away the person he loves most in this world" and wanted to do everything he could to make sure he didn't hurt me that way ever again due to his mind. Thank you for saying this. Sooo, here it goes: My 20-year-old (ex? When his energy is high, he may experience racing thoughts and … They need professional help. I'll survive. I almost always usually regret it, as well as the fights I pick with my boyfriend. By using our Services or clicking I agree, you agree to our use of cookies. She is bipolar, that is what is the norm for them. You're healing not wounded. Could some of this behavior be from stopping them? And then my dog of 12 years died and he responded that the stress made him have a feeling of hurting himself again. I've also noticed as someone with bipolar disorder, that is much easier for me to tell people I want them out of my life than for other people. However, just within his first week back at college this semester, something changed. Feel hurt, used, betrayed and alone by the whole experience. I’ve been appearing strong so far, but feel like breaking down. There is a very large online support forum for people with SOs who have personality disorders. Of course, she treated you that way. Be some alleviation for you as well as the fights I pick with my partner no... 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